Who We Can Be - POSTED ON: Jun 07, 2011
Sometimes I choose not to organize my Thoughts, and just write about them in a random manner Today is one of those days.
This is my first morning weighing in without any cast. I am pleased about this. However, even a slight use of my wrist, arm and hand is painful. I am unable to grasp anything; can’t curl my hand into a fist, or position my wrist above the keyboard in a typing position. So recovery appears to be more distant than I anticipated, and I am working to readjust my expectations about being able to quickly resume my normal activities.
Today my weight is only one pound higher than it was on Good Friday morning, which is the day I broke my wrist. During this period, I’ve managed to keep my calories lower than is normal for me, but I’ve had to spend a great deal of time at rest, which reduced my energy burn. I am both grateful for, and dissatisfied by, my weight results, and I believe that is a fairly normal reaction. One of my sisters-in-law died this week, which reminds me that life is short and precious. Looking at the Big Picture shows me that my temporary disability and discomfort is actually only a minor inconvenience.
Sorrow comes to us all, and there are times we feel sad. But even during times of sadness, I believe that each of us has the ability to work on adjusting our mental attitudes toward Acceptance and Gratitude, and that by placing our focus on the things that are positive we can make life far more pleasant, both for ourselves and for others.
Lucky? - POSTED ON: Jun 02, 2011
Feeling Lucky often takes effort. Directing one's Focus on the Positive is hard work. Old patterns, old thoughts, old behaviors will come up again and again. In order to be healthy, we must learn to accept this fact, and let them surface precisely so we can let them out
Sometimes I mope, worry, and cry a few times, and write my feelings down. Up and out and gone. Until next time. I work on Acceptance and Gratitude. Life is a continual awakening and a continual letting go.
Years ago, these experience were much different. I would have had all these feelings, with no awareness. I would have stuffed them down with food and then I would have felt guilt and shame. The pathetic cycle would continue, and I would have no idea why.
Sometimes we believe that once we:
• lose the weight • succeed at the physical feat of our choice • haven’t binged in X days or weeks or months or even years! • wear a certain size clothing • haven’t eaten the food we individually perceive as “evil” • have bariatric surgery • (choose some other measurement of perceived perfection)
…we believe that we’re immune. But, this is never true.
It’s not about “never again” it’s about catching ourselves sooner!
Our Expression - POSTED ON: May 28, 2011
I’ve learned through my lifetime of relationships that some things are best left unsaid. Every Thought doesn’t need to be expressed.
Consistent courtesy and kindness are invaluable, both verbal and nonverbal, and this is true whether they are given or received
Just like words, facial expressions can be hurtful. I feel better about life, myself and others when the facial expressions of the people around me are positive.
Smiling tends to produce positive responses from others, and the act of smiling also makes me feel a bit better. Sour, angry, bitter or hateful facial expressions tend to bring me down, even when these are on my own face.
It takes work to develop a consistently positive mental attitude. It is also necessary to work on how we express our thoughts to others. While our facial expressions sometimes tend to be reflections of our thoughts, one part of our ability to control our own Behavior includes the way we choose to express our thoughts to others...both verbally, and non-verbally.
Being Myself - POSTED ON: May 27, 2011
I tend to ..(not so secretly).. be self-absorbed.
Today is Friday of Memorial Day Weekend. When I hear the term “Memorial Day Weekend”, My first thought is the sight, smell, and taste of food at a backyard BBQ. Next I think of the fact that Summer is beginning, and then about past or future camping trips to the mountains or the beach and other vacations.
Later I think of putting flowers at the grave sites of departed family members, and about the TV war movies my husband is going to have on for three days.
These mental pictures contain both positives and negatives. They can lead me to the pleasant or to the unpleasant. To feelings of Hope and Joy, or of Loss and Sadness.
I can’t keep my mind from touching on unpleasant past or future events, but I do have the ability to consciously change my mental focus by directing my mind toward the more pleasant memories or current events.
Just like with all worthwhile things, learning this skill takes consistent effort, but when my Thoughts change….so do my Feelings…and my Behavior. I find it impossible to directly change my feelings, …and directly changing my behavior…without first changing my thoughts… is equally impossible for me.
So, for me, all positive change in my life begins with me working toward positive thoughts.
My number one positive Thought is this......
Even with all of my flaws, I am an acceptable human being, and it is Okay to be me.
Beauty - POSTED ON: May 24, 2011
Seeing a beautiful object or person fulfills the senses. That is beauty on the outside. It is a pleasant experience when the senses are stimulated. But what is the essence of this pleasure, and how long lasting?
What if the beautiful person one sees is heartless and insensitive? What if they lack character or dignity? Would that outer beauty suffice? Looking at a beautiful person merely gives pleasure.
There is also a beauty that is magnetic and uplifts the soul. such as when one sees the inner beauty of a person. Beauty is one of the utmost quests of Humanity. Many people are under the notion that this quest has to do with appearances. One sees a shapely woman with flawless skin and impeccable features. And they think that’s what it’s all about. But substantial beauty is often intangible. It is beauty of the character, of the heart and of the soul.
It is easy to sometimes get impatient, and be only attracted to something that is immediately seen. To seek only the Material, something that can be grasped or touched. But what is Material is temporal and passing. And that which is invisible to the eyes is more lasting.
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