Out-of-Sorts - POSTED ON: Apr 30, 2012
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t's Monday morning and I'm feeling out-of-sorts. My weight is up today to a number that I find unacceptable, and yet the only plan I have is to eat less and move more.
I'm having a very hard time making even the slightest commitment to any particular food plan that limits or restricts what I eat. For Today, the only thing I'm willing to do is to record all my food, and work to limit my calories.
This may not be a great encouragement to others, but it's my best for today … at least … for right this moment. Part of my lifestyle is working to maintain my large weight-loss. I'm now in my 7th year … which I've lived one-day-at-a-time. Today is one more of those days.
Establishing Habits - POSTED ON: Jul 23, 2011
When we think about establishing Habits, most of us focus on the later stage of the process where things start to become natural, instead of those difficult early days where there seem to be more failures than successes.
At the beginning stage, we need to focus on building the foundations of a new habit before expecting a long string of successes.
It is important to start out with small steps. Be specific about the exact behavior desired. A list, or chart, or reward system can help support habit building, but keep it simple. In the early days of Habit building, it's usually easier to stick with it, when we aren't continually reminded of our up-and-down progress.
Keep the Focus on individual days, rather than weeks or months. Because dealing with long time periods can be very discouraging. Each day I give myself a fresh start.
This morning I decided to...again...work to implement some habits that would be helpful in my weight maintenance. I prepared a small chart for myself that dealt with a few of my problem areas and the Habits that might help eliminate them ...similar to the No S Diet's Habitcal idea,... Except...my chart covers only one individual day,...today... and even breaks that day into several different time periods. Then tomorrow, I'll use another, new duplicate chart, with a new fresh start. If, in the future, I want to put that information together, for detailed analysis, it would be easy to do so, but for now, this very simple one-day-at-a-time focus is the only way I can manage to get myself to stick with my efforts.
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There's no Generic Plan - POSTED ON: Jul 14, 2011
In every aspect of life, including Weight-loss and maintenance of that weight-loss, It is not about what is right for others but it is about what is right for you.
It’s not that I am right and others are wrong Instead there is no one-size-fits-all approach to losing weight and getting fit.
The longer I travel this path the more I understand that there isn’t a generic plan that is right for everyone. I have discovered that because we are all genetically different, what works for me may or may not work for you. Each of us has to write our own owner’s manual to achieve success.
There are general fundamental philosophies of eating and exercise. It’s valuable to start with those principles. As we discover how our own body responds to following these, then we can re-evaluate where we are in this journey in order to continue on the same path or to determine ways to change directions.
Some people don’t like the word “diet” and instead use words like: “eat healthy”. Other people…such as myself….view dieting as a “hobby”, and embrace the concept and incorparate it into their lives.
Some people avoid sugar and white flour. Some avoid or restrict most carbohydrates. Some avoid all processed food. Other people eat everything in moderation.
Some people eat small frequent meals..as scheduled or as they become hungry. Others eat only two or three times a day, and avoid snacking between meals. Some people use fasting as a weight-loss tool. Some people count calories; some use food exchanges; and some even count bites.
To survive and to live, each of us must eat, and there are many different foods and eating patterns available to choose from. Personally, I find it helpful to track all my food and this is something I find valuable as part of my own plan.
Sometimes people ask what I did to lose the weight, and I’m happy to tell them. But that doesn’t mean they can expect the same results, within the same time frame. And the way I choose to eat and to live my life might not be a good fit for them.
The Journey is much longer than many people can imagine The reality is that it is a life-long journey with no clear destination except to have a healthy and fulfilling life. During my own journey, I’ve changed directions many times. I think it’s helpful to read all that you can so you can better understand the process; And ask questions. The only dumb question is the one never asked. Do not be afraid to fall flat on your face. I have learned the most in my life through my mistakes.
What I have discovered is that no one approach is better than another. Don’t run if you hate running, Don’t eat cottage cheese if you hate cottage cheese. Know that we are all truly an experiment-of-one and what works for me may or may not work for you. Each of us must live in our individual bodies, during the "game" of life.
What I CAN do - POSTED ON: Jul 09, 2011
I find that concentrating on what I can’t do, tends to limit my choices. Concentrating on what I can do tends to expand my choices.
There’s no law that a person has to exercise for at least 20 minutes or more to get even the slightest benefit; or that one must do high intensity exercise; or that strength training requires the use of more than one’s own body weight.
In fact, small bouts of fitness add up. Something is always better than nothing.
Dieting is another thing I can’t do perfectly. What I can do is make my food choices better quality, and I can eat smaller food portions of everything I choose to eat. I can choose to mostly eat foods that make me less hungry, like those containing more protein or fiber and less sugar. My goal is to do well, not to be perfect. I can’t be perfect, but I can do well.
It is easy to get a very black and white view of fit living. Either you are dieting and exercising or you’re not. There’s another way….a rainbow view. We can see all sorts of colors and shades in between. Adopting a “fit” lifestyle is very individualized and it often includes more than a specific diet and exercise. What makes one person fit may never work for another. It could be genetics, environment, health, or just because our lives run in completely different directions.
There is no on-or-off of the fit living issue. We are just on the road.
It’s a winding road with mountains, bridges, detours, vacation spots and a million other things. We can be positive drivers and enjoy the scenery, sing with the radio, have fun with our passengers, and find ways around the obstacles of the road. It’s even okay to stop at the vacation spots here and there.
We can choose not to give away our freedom by saying: "I can’t." There are far more choices with "I can." When we hit a roadblock, we don’t have to say…
"I can’t go on until this clears away.”
Instead" we can say
"What can I do from here, right where I am now?
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Someday - POSTED ON: Jun 30, 2011
There is only NOW and SOMEDAY... and SOMEDAY is some imaginary time in the future.
Right NOW I'm having a difficult time getting it together. I woke up with a negative aura...for no particular reason..., and it's taking a great deal of effort to displace it.
I work to feel and accept my feelings without actually cultivating those I find difficult. I've found that if I don't "feed" negativity, it will soon dissipate. The issue is....I am not merely giving in to a bad mood. I'm working at refusing to dwell on negative thoughts, by telling myself positive things, by listing some of the many things I am grateful for.
Right NOW I am addressing the daily tasks that are necessary, ....although I would rather do them SOMEDAY... including writing here this morning. I know and understand that feelings come and go, both good and bad, and that although I can work to minimize the feelings that I'd rather not have, I can't escape them. A great deal of my own emotional eating issues came from an inner belief that it was necessary to escape from negative feelings...rather than let them run their course. Now I know it's okay...and necessary...to feel them. I've also learned that although I have to FEEL my feelings, I don't have to act them all out. I don't HAVE to cultivate them and help them grow. Right NOW, not SOMEDAY, I can work to be pleasant to both myself and others even when I feel a bit low and mean. An important life lesson I've learned is that my life works better for me, when I don't try to bring myself up, by bringing others down. While my negative feelings exist and must be felt, every unpleasant thought I have doesn't need to be verbalized,
There's a really good chance that I'm going to feel good again within a few hours. However, part of writing daily articles in a Blog like this, is sharing both the ups and the downs. Everyone's life has both, mine included.
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