What To Do?

- POSTED ON: Dec 22, 2012


What to do during this Holiday Season?

How can we manage to engage in a way of eating that will help lose weight, or keep us from gaining weight?  I, personally, have never found  a workable solution to this problem, but here's some advice that we may, ... or may not, ...  find helpful.

This Holiday Season,
 Stop the Wrist Slaps and Write-Offs

                    By Yoni Freedhoff, M.D.    December  2012.

I've seen hundreds, if not thousands, of people go through the holiday season hoping to manage their weight. I've seen large gains, small gains, the status quo, and even some losses. But one thing's for sure: As far as long-term likelihood of success goes, extremes are bad omens.

In categorizing holiday strategies, there are really only two possible extreme holiday behaviors—the wrist-slappers and the write-offers.

The wrist-slappers are the folks who feel that their own weight management supersedes humanity's cultural and time-immemorial use of food in celebration. Consequently, they spend the bulk of their holidays slapping their wrists rather than enjoying indulgent fare.The write-offers are the folks who decide that celebratory eating trumps thoughtfulness and that holidays represent the carte blanche of caloric indulgence.

The wrist-slappers will often lose weight over the holiday season, while the write-offers often gain substantially. But in the end, both tend to fail at long-term weight management.

Wrist-slappers fail in the long run, because the human condition prevents people from perpetually denying themselves the ability to derive pleasure from food, and without a middle ground, these all-or-nothing people regularly go from strict periods of "nothing" right back to "all." These are the folks who rapidly lose huge amounts of weight and then, often just as rapidly, gain it back again.

Write-offers fail in the long run because the human condition is such that regularly giving oneself inches generally leads to regularly giving oneself miles. What might begin as holiday write-offs more often than not will devolve into vacation write-offs, illness write-offs, times-of-higher-stress write-offs, weekend write-offs, and eventually just all-the-time write-offs.

Given the calories in our indulgent holiday fare, given the role of food in celebration and social gathering, and given the human condition, my experience has taught me that gaining 1 or 2 pounds over last two weeks of the year is par for a thoughtfully navigated course and nothing to be too worried about.

This holiday season, instead of wrist slaps or write offs, why not live a life of thoughtful reduction? No blind restrictions, but also no blind consumptions. Ask yourself whether or not something's worth its calories and how much you need of it to be happily satisfied. Remember, too, that what's worth it on Christmas Eve, might not be worth it on just plain Tuesday, and that the healthiest life you can enjoy over the holidays, when seen through the lens of our shared human condition, ought to include some thoughtful indulgence.

 Yoni Freedhoff, MD, is an assistant professor of family medicine at the University of Ottawa, where he's the founder and medical director of the Bariatric Medical Institute—dedicated to non-surgical weight management since 2004. Dr. Freedhoff's book "Why Diets Fail and How to Make Yours Work" will be published by Simon & Schuster's Free Press in April 2013.

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Existing Comments:

On Dec 22, 2012 wrote:
Guess I'm a wrist-slapper...fits me to a 'T'. This time should be different for me anyway because I think I solved the mental issues first...finally! Time will tell.

On Dec 22, 2012 jethro wrote:
I'm a write-offer. I need to copy my normal weight friends and relatives that are write-offers at holidays, banquets, etc. but resume normal eating afterwards.

On Dec 22, 2012 TexArk wrote:
Well, I cannot celebrate 12 days of Christmas...that's for sure. My plan is for a special treat on Christmas Eve, a nice Christmas dinner, and a special treat on New Year's Eve. That is enough. So I guess I am a modified wrist slapper. It is too much work to get off the pounds that come on so easily when I write off the "Holidays."

On Dec 23, 2012 Dr. Collins wrote:
Hi John, Jethro, and TexArk. Looks to me like Dr. Freedhoff is recommending "moderation", which is between the "wrist-slapper" and the "write-offer". Moderation might come easy to many people, but I think it is extremely difficult for people like me, whose nature doesn't seem to include that attribute.

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